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Are We There Yet?

A few weeks ago, I went to T. Harv Eker’s Millionaire Mind Intensive and it was intense! I highly recommend it if you want to take your business, finances and your life to the next level. This event is held all over the country so I’m sure there’s one not far from you. Click here for an easy way to learn more; it’s my gift to you.

Today, I’m headed to Atlanta for a speaker’s conference where I hope to learn how to get my message out in an even bigger and better way. I’m also looking forward to meeting great new people which seems to happen every time I step out of my comfort zone and head out to experience something new. When was the last time you broadened your world, did something different and met someone interesting? That’s how growth happens and you’d be amazed how exciting it can be, try it!

On another note my fellow freezing friends, how are you handling the winter? I know it’s so tempting to hide under those extra layers of clothing, eat warm comfort foods and hunker down until the snow melts. Speaking of snow, here are my boys Dylan and Cole relaxing in their home made igloo they made in my backyard:

Just keep in mind, the snow will melt, the temperature will rise, flowers, grass and trees will bud and bloom and you’ll soon pack away your warm, wooly clothing. Instead of the frustration and anger many feel when they realize what they’ve done to themselves in the way of extra eating and not enough activity, here’s your reminder to preplan now!

It’s already mid-February which means Spring is a little more than one month away. In one month, you can:

· Create an exercise plan you like that brings results

· Eat less processed, high fat, high calorie food in exchange for healthy, filling, real food

· Drink more water and less soda/juice/high calorie coffee concoctions/alcohol

· Find a healthier way to reduce your stress (maybe try yoga, journaling, meditation or exercise instead of overeating, drinking, shopping, etc.)

· Make plans with friends who make you laugh and spend less time with those who drain and deplete you

· Try something new that brings you out of your comfort zone. Remember if you keep doing what you always do, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always gotten! (I think Jim Rohn said that first and I love that quote)

· Get support. If you need my help, visit www.TheMojoCoach.com to see which coaching program is right for you or at least read a few of my articles or invest in one of my books to give you some new ideas.

As my kids would say, “Are we there yet?” We’ll be welcoming the Spring soon enough and when we get there, will you be ready? Just as I’m always encouraging you to preplan your meals and snacks, here’s my 2 cents about preplanning your healthy living strategies right now so you can happily welcome the Spring when it finally arrives!

Until next time!

Debi Silber, MS, RD, WHC The Mojo Coach

www.TheMojoCoach.com

A Summer Gift to My Subscribers

So if you’re already receiving my weekly tips and newsletter (just a few of the health, fitness and wellness gifts I offer at www.TheMojoCoach.com, you have gotten the first of 3 in a series of very important emails you won’t want to miss.

What was in the email? What offer did I make?

Let’s just say that it’s something I’ve never done before and most likely won’t be doing again (at least anytime soon:)) But having said that, I’m thrilled to be able to offer this exciting opportunity and look forward to sharing it with those who are truly ready to become their personal and professional best.

So, are you ready for lasting results in the area of weight loss, fitness, abundance, energy, love and fun?

Then sign up right now at www.TheMojoCoach.com. Besides a full year of complementary goodies, you’ll be eligible for my one time offer, available only to my subscribers.

More to come this Wednesday…

See you there!

Practicing What I Preach and I Need Your Help!

Whether you’ve read my book, any of my articles, heard me speak or saw me anywhere you know that I’m always encouraging you to try new things, stretch yourself mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually so the best of you can slowly emerge. Well, try anything new lately?

Now that it’s June, it’s the perfect time to try a new outdoor fitness routine, enjoy some of the delicious summer fruits and vegetables now available, make some changes to your wardrobe, meet a friend for a walk, get your resume together and start the process of finding a more rewarding career, committ to making healthier meals…you get the idea! Becoming your personal and professional best starts with taking the first step so consider this a gentle nudge from me!

Those who know me also know that I always try to practice what I preach and lately, I’ve been challenging myself with all kinds of new, scary and exciting opportunities. Some have been a raging success and some, well…haven’t been :)

This is the latest opportunity I’m excited about and I’d be so grateful and appreciative to have your help! Oprah is having a competition to find hosts for her new TV network OWN and I decided to give it a go. My goal is to bring truckloads of information, inspiration and motivation to people ready to look, feel and live their best so if you’d like my show idea, I’d be so grateful for your vote! Please click here to watch my brief video: http://myown.oprah.com/audition/index.html?request=video_details&response_id=4046&promo_id=1

Also, I’m always interested in finding better ways to serve you. Would you like more coaching options, articles, events, teleseminars, products or mini coaching sessions? Let me know and I’ll do my best to create it for you!

Enjoy the day and feel free to comment and share!

We Are What We…

Many of us have heard the saying “we are what we eat. Basically this means that if our diets are made up of fast food, takeout, foods high in sugar, high in fat, if we drink too much or if we consider our children’s leftovers a decent meal, we can’t really be surprised if our body doesn’t look or feel it’s best. To sum it up; eat bad, look and feel bad. Well, not only are we what we eat, but we’re also what we feel, think, hear, see, do and believe. Here’s how.

Let’s start with what you think. If you think you’re unlovable, unworthy or incapable, and these are the thoughts that play continuously in your mind, can you really be surprised if these thoughts encourage you act or carry yourself a certain way? Maybe they’ll prevent you from feeling deserving of a loving relationship, cause you to feel unworthy of something fabulous or incapable of achieving a goal or dream. If these or similar thoughts are playing in a negative tape loop you’ve created, take a look at how they’re showing themselves within your life.

Moving on to “we are what we feel.” If you feel overweight, unattractive or ill-equipped in some way, take a look at the way you dress, the way you carry yourself, what you do (or don’t do) and the relationships you have. Notice how these feelings show themselves in the clothes you choose, the opportunities you may be avoiding and what you’re willing to tolerate in a coworker, friend or partner. Now identify how different things would be if you didn’t feel this way about yourself.

“We are what we hear.” Think about it, if you’re listening to people who are negative, critical, pessimistic and judgmental, can you be surprised when you feel deflated, depleted and uninspired? Of course you’re trying to be a good listener, you may even be the “go to person” when someone wants to gossip, needs to vent or complain. Notice however, how you feel once this negativity is dumped on you.

Let’s take a look at “we are what we see.” If you’re watching programs filled with misery, pain, violence or vulgarity, are you surprised if that has an affect on you? Take TV news for example. Sure you may be up to date on the latest tragedies in the areas of crime, the recession, drugs or disease but how do these visuals resonate with you? After seeing them do you feel calm, serene and comfortable or nervous, vulnerable and afraid?

Next, let’s look at “we are what we do.” If you’re doing little more than chores or tasks when you’re home, errands and an unfulfilling job when you’re out, can you be surprised if you’re not excited about your life? Think about it. Take a look at your typical day and see what it’s made of. If it’s crammed with tasks leaving no room for self care, healthy eating, exercise, down time and fun, can you see how this may be showing itself in how you look, feel and live?

Lastly, let’s look at “we are what we believe.” Our belief system is created by the repetition of an idea from someone we trust. For example, let’s say you were constantly told “you can be, do or have anything.” This was said to you enough times and it became your belief system as well. But, let’s say you were on the receiving end of someone with limited beliefs themselves. They may have told you that you were not meant to be wealthy, happy, thin, carefree, etc. They may have believed that “life is a struggle, everyone in our family has a fiery temper, is prone to heart disease, has these thighs,” etc. When this was said to you enough times, it became your belief system as well. Are you surprised then when you go into your adult life, carrying this belief system and living within these limits?

Not only are we what we eat, but we’re also what we think, feel, hear, see, do and believe. It’s all of these factors that contribute to who we are and how we live our lives as a result. The best part about it is that with awareness and a desire to change, whatever area doesn’t work well for you anymore can slowly and steadily be changed so that it does. The choice is ours.

I’d love to hear your comments. Comment and share!

Why do YOU need to exercise?

Why do you need to exercise?

There are many reasons to incorporate exercise into your life.  But all of them may not have the same motivating power for you.  Finding the benefits of exercise that mean the most to you personally can make all the difference in getting you into a long term habit of regular exercise.

Some of benefits of exercise that you might consider are:

  • Reduces your risk for conditions such as heart disease, stroke, diabetes and obesity
  • Helps reduce your blood pressure
  • Increases HDL (“good” cholesterol) and reduces LDL (“bad” cholesterol)
  • Clears toxins
  • Improves the quality of your sleep
  • Sharpens your mind and increases energy
  • Makes your heart and lungs stronger and more efficient
  • Elevates mood
  • Helps manage stress
  • Sets a positive example for your children
  • Tones your body and keeps you slim

You have probably heard most of these benefits before, and they’re all good reasons to get off the couch and get moving.  But finding the one that motivates you is the key to making exercise a part of your life!

If reducing the risk of disease jumps out on the list and makes you want to get started, then think about how exercise helps normalize your levels of stress hormones, blood glucose levels, and insulin levels.  Normalizing these levels keeps your body in balance while reducing your risk for diseases.

If the idea of elevating your mood is especially appealing to you, imagine being outside on the perfect day, with a clear head, listening to the perfect song and enjoying the feeling of treating your body well.  Now imagine you are midway through your workout and suddenly you feel a burst of energy that makes you feel as if you can fly.  You are completely “in the zone”, you feel weightless and you feel like nothing beats the feeling you’re experiencing right at that moment.  You may double your speed and not even notice because you are so completely enjoying the experience.

Those of you who don’t exercise may think I am nothing short of crazy, but I can only urge you to give this “high” a try!  When you compare it to any chemically induced high, this one is available any time, for free, and is actually good for you!

Another example of how exercise can elevate your mood is by giving you a positive outlet for stress relief, building your confidence by building a more fit body and showing yourself a commitment to living a healthy lifestyle.  The positive thoughts that come along with these feelings will overflow into other areas of your life.

If setting a good example for your children seems like a strong reason to get moving, realize that you can tell your children all day long how important it is for them to exercise.  But if they see you finding the time to exercise yourself, they may follow your example and get out and try it themselves.  Don’t just talk the talk, walk the walk!

If making your body lean, toned and strong sounds good to you, you are in good company!  Having children can leave your body in less than optimal condition and you can thank your little ones for the new stretch marks, change in skin tone, sagging, and those few extra pounds you may still have hanging around since their arrival.  While people will tell you these are some of the ‘medals of motherhood’, I’m going to tell you something else.  You don’t have to be unhappy with your post-pregnancy body.  In fact, you can make your post-pregnancy body stronger, sleeker, and sexier than ever before.

While you may have a few extra pounds on you, you also may have some new curves to work with.  While your skin tone may not be the same, you can certainly tighten up what’s lying underneath.  The point is, it’s never too late to work toward a healthy, fit body!

So take some time and think about what would motivate YOU to exercise.  What benefits of becoming fit mean the most to you?  Find a personal reason for beginning or maintaining an exercise routine.  The reason can be your health, your appearance, stress-management, the chance to take some time for self-care, or showing yourself that you can make a commitment and stick to it.  Whatever reason you discover, write it down and review it every day.  On days when you don’t feel like exercising, reading your own words of motivation may offer you the incentive to get moving!

Mojo 911!!

Have you ever wished that you could get private coaching from a Registered Dietitian with a Master’s Degree to create a healthy eating plan? Work one-on-one with a Personal Trainer to create a fitness routine that is just right for you? Meet with a Whole Health Coach who can show you how your current lifestyle is creating health/wellness or illness/disease?

But all of that individualized attention would cost thousands of dollars, right? Since I’m all three of those experts rolled into one (branded The Mojo Coach™ by my clients to sum it all up), I can tell you – yes, it would! And it would be worth every penny!

BUT, starting on Tuesday, July 7th at 2PM EST you can join me at www.MomTV.com for my new TV show – Mojo 911! – where I’m giving away all of this and much more… for FREE!!

I’ll be giving truckloads of information, ideas, strategies and inspiration within the six areas that as moms, we struggle with most: Nutrition/Weight Loss, Fitness, Stress Control, Emotional Health, Relationship Wellness, and Spirituality.

Each week I’ll be giving away a FREE gift: either one of my 2 CD’s, my book: The Lifestyle Fitness Program: A Six Part Plan So Every Mom Can Look, Feel and Live Her Best (recommended by Parenting Magazine), a mini coaching session, or who knows-if you live nearby I may just stop by and give you a kitchen cabinet makeover, take you on a food shopping tour or help you set up an effective home gym!

How can YOU win these FREE gifts? You’ll have to tune in each week to find out how to enter and winners will be announced each week!

If you are a mom who is ready to make lasting lifestyle changes, lose weight, become fit, healthy and happy from the inside, out…you’re going to want to tune in Tuesdays at 2PM EST at www.MomTV.com!

For nearly 20 years, I’ve inspired and empowered unfit, overweight and overwhelmed moms “get their mojo back” and now I’m eager to share everything that’s worked with moms who’ll be watching my show: Mojo 911! The program I created and teach (The Lifestyle Fitness Program) works because I know that you need a program that values your time, understands your specific needs and brings results. Also, being a mom of 4, I “get it” and know that our needs as moms are very different from the needs of others!

So please join me at 2PM EST on July 7th – and every Tuesday – on www.MomTV.com and let me help you get your mojo back!

Stress and Sleep

Are you getting enough sleep?  According to the latest survey from the Better Sleep Council , 68% of American women admit to getting less than 8 hours of sleep per night.  You can bet that percentage is higher among moms!

Sleep eludes some of us because stresses in our lives make it difficult to quiet down and relax when it is time to go to bed.  For others, nighttime interruptions keep us from getting the sleep we need.

The truth is, in order to function adequately your body requires seven to eight hours of sleep per night.  Without adequate sleep, we’re left feeling irritable, cranky, short-fused, emotionally unstable, mentally cloudy, groggy, fatigued – and overweight.

And the stress and sleep cycle continues. Once you’re sleep deprived, cortisol and other stress hormones are released, which disrupt the normal rhythm of your sleep cycle.  Instead of waking and feeling refreshed, high cortisol levels leave you feeling groggy and fatigued.  If that weren’t bad enough, this high cortisol level that’s released during times of little sleep also increases your appetite for high fat, high sugar foods.   And when we are tired, two of the ways we attempt to increase our energy are by taking in simple carbohydrates and caffeine.

Taking in simple carbohydrates (sugar) can give you a quick energy boost, but it’s also one of the easiest ways to gain weight.  The calories add up quickly, you’re never full or satisfied, and the resulting sugar crash can leave you looking for another boost almost immediately.

Seeking energy through caffeine is also a recipe for trouble.  You may feel nervous, anxious and shaky.  While you may have an additional energy boost from the caffeine, your body still needs rest.  This can result in that feeling of being “tired and wired”.  You may be able to get through your day, but the artificial energy takes you further away from a healthy, balanced sleep cycle.  Without healthy sleep, the stress hormones have no opportunity to rebalance, the immune system is unable to repair itself and we experience physical, mental and emotional wear and tear.

Sleep, stress, and sugar turn into a vicious cycle.

I could tell you to make sure you get those hours in and settle for nothing less.  And if you could make it happen, you would see the health benefits that come from adequate, quality sleep.  But for many of us, our level of sleep is not a matter of choice.

If you have young children, it may not be realistic to get those seven or eight hours of sleep, no matter what. If you are doing late night feedings, your child is having nightmares, or having trouble staying asleep, the idea of a full night’s sleep may seem priceless, but not possible.  In this case, the best option may be to nap if and when you can.  Even an extra fifteen or twenty minutes somewhere in your day can do wonders to refuel and recharge your body and mind.

If getting more sleep seems impossible, there are strategies you can use to make the sleep you do get more effective.

1.) Limit your caffeine and try to avoid caffeine in the afternoon and evening.  The caffeine that may help you get through your afternoon will interfere with restful sleep later.  Coffee, tea, soda and chocolate all contain caffeine, so use them all with discretion.

2.) Put yourself in the best mental state for sleep. Putting your thoughts, ideas, and concerns in writing and then setting them aside may help you feel better able to relax.  Keeping paper and a pencil by the bed to write down any thoughts or “to dos” for the next day can help you get back to sleep quickly instead of worrying and getting up to do “one last thing”.

3.) Develop a sleep routine.  Try to go to sleep at the same time, make the room dark and cool, play soft music or “white noise”.  Taking a warm bath, meditating, or reading something light could all be part of your routine to prepare for sleep.

4.) Make sure your room is clean, serene and comfortable.  A messy room with paperwork sitting around may remind you of all you need to do and increase your stress.

Try some of these strategies to improve the quality of your sleep.  Once you’re well rested and your stress hormones are under control, you’ll be less dependent on sugar and caffeine to get through your day.  Getting your sleep back on track can be a major building block for getting your mojo back!

Here’s Our “Choose a Newsletter Title Winner!”

Maggie Ball
Maggie Ball

Hi Everyone,

Remember  when I was trying to choose a new title for our newsletter? I mean let’s face it, “The Lifestyle Fitness Newsletter” wasn’t really a title that packed a punch.

Well, since it’s your newsletter, I decided to let you choose the title you liked best. After receiving some incredible submissions, you chose our new title “Mojo Moments” which was offered by Maggie (in photo on left). The prize for the person who submitted the winning title was a copy of my book: The Lifestyle Fitness Program: A Six Part Plan So Every Mom Can Look, Feel and Live Her Best. As you can see, here’s Maggie (all the way from Australia!) proudly holding up her copy.

Thanks to all who entered the contest and more exciting contests to come!

Enjoy the day!
Debi “The Mojo Coach”
www.TheMojoCoach.com
www.AskTheMojoCoach.com

Thanks for a Great Live Chat!

Hi Everyone,

Last night I was a featured guest on a live chat. It was the first time I did a chat like this where for 1 hour, I stand my my computer and rapidly type answers to questions that are being asked one after another. It was for the New Year’s Resolution Group at gather.com and I was asked to be a member of the New Year’s Resolution “Dream Team.” The Team was made up of 3 panelists. A well known Personal Trainer, a Resolution expert who worked at the White House, the Pentagon and for Members of Congress…and me!

Here’s the link to see the questions that were asked and to see how I answered them. http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474977555567&grpId=3659174697244110&nav=Groupspace

Wish I had time to get to all of the questions but before I knew it, the hour was over!

Thanks so much to the hosts of this chat and I hope that everyone who didn’t get their questions answered join me on my live, free teleclass (speaking…no typing!) on Thursday, January 15th at 12 noon EST/ 9 am PST. To submit your question, receive your study guide and FREE gift from me, just go to www.AskTheMojoCoach.com.

Thanks again and hope to “see” you then!

Debi “The Mojo Coach”
www.TheMojoCoach.com
www.AskTheMojoCoach.com

Thanks For a Great Call!

Hi Everyone,

Thanks for a great call! There were so many great questions submitted. I wish I could have had another few hours with you to answer them all!

For those on the call: I know I gave you a ton of information in a short amount of time. Just keep reading over the notes you wrote from the study guide I gave and start moving towards your best self!

Hope you liked your free gift!

I’m planning on having more calls soon so keep checking the events/teleclass page so you can be a part of the next one!

Have a great day and speak to you soon!
Debi “The Mojo Coach”
www.TheMojoCoach.com




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