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Tricks for Staying on Track While Eating Out

Many of my clients find it much easier to stay on track with eating healthy meals when they cook for themselves and eat at home. But eating out is such a huge part of many of our lives, and doesn’t need to mean completely letting loose.

I have tons of tricks that I share with them when we are working on building up that mojo,  and here are a few to get you started!  If you want the full scoop, come check out my Mega Mojo Membership program!

• For a lighter meal one option can be to order an appetizer (as long as it’s a healthy one) with a salad or two healthy appetizers instead of a high fat/calorie entrée.

• Start with a clear based soup or salad instead of a cream based soup or the bread basket.

• Ask that the bread basket not even be put down on the table. If that’s not an option, make a rule about how much you’ll have before you go and stick to it!

• At a buffet or salad bar, load up on the vegetables and watch out for high fat toppings and mixtures.

• Split an entree with your dinner partner or ask for half of it to be packed up before the waiter even brings it to the table.

• Use the opportunity to enjoy what the restaurant is known for; enjoying a small portion of those foods which are unique, interesting and symbolic of that restaurant while avoiding ordinary foods that you
can have anywhere.

• Substitute fruit, salad or steamed vegetables in place of high fat side dishes.

• Use condiments like ketchup, mustard, vinegar, lemon and salsa to add flavor instead of butter, sour cream, cheese or creamy sauces.

• Ask for foods “dry” or with sauces on the side.

• Use the “fork trick” for your salad. Instead of piercing the salad then dipping it into dressing, do the reverse! Dip the fork in the dressing first…then pierce the salad. You’ll still get the flavor you love
without using nearly as much as if you did it the other way.

And here’s your “Mojo Minute” for the week, a video demonstration of the “fork trick” - happy dining!

Becoming Supermarket Savvy

You know by now that one of the easiest ways to avoid temptation is to avoid bringing high-fat, high-sugar foods into your home in the first place. This effort begins in the supermarket, so learning to shop more effectively can be one of the most useful skills when trying to create new, healthy lifestyle habits. Studies have shown that moms make more than 90% of the food purchasing decisions, so now’s the time to learn how to make those decisions smart ones!

The first step is to avoid the random impulse purchasing of binge-inducing trigger foods. The easiest way to do this is by shopping with a prepared list. Sitting down to write a list out may seem like a big task, but you can make it easier.

An easy trick is to keep a running list easily accessible in your kitchen - maybe hanging on the refrigerator. When you are running low on something, jot it down. When you think of a healthy meal you’d like to try, write down the ingredients. When you see a picture, advertisement or recipe for a delicious healthy meal, grab your list and write it down.

Another great shortcut in list making (and healthy meal planning) is to subscribe to a service like The Six O’Clock Scramble, which not only gives you a week of healthy recipes, but comes with a handy grocery list including everything you need to make all of the recipes!

Once you have your list, make sure you only take the list to the supermarket.  Leave your hunger and your kids at home.

If you food shop when you’re hungry, you’re much more tempted to buy things you would normally be able to bypass.  By having a light snack or mini meal before you enter the supermarket, you’re judgment will stay intact and you will be able to make more sound choices.

Have you noticed how much more junk food you buy when you bring your kids to the supermarket with you?

“Mom, can you pleeeeeease buy this (sugary, calorie-laden) cereal I saw on TV?”

“Mom, everyone brings in these (high fat, high cholesterol, nutrient void) snacks to school!”

The battles can be endless in the supermarket, with foods containing the least nutrition and the most far, sugar and calories strategically placed right at your children’s eye level.  If you must bring your children, also bring a strong resolve to stick to your list.  If you have a choice, leave the kids at home and take a few moments for yourself.  You can use the opportunity to make better choices that the whole family will benefit from.

So, you’re armed with your list, you’ve had a snack and now you are alone in the supermarket.

Where do you begin?

First, let’s talk about labels.

1.) The first think to notice when looking at a nutrition label is to note the number of servings in the package.  The calories, fat, cholesterol, fiber and sodium are all listed for only one serving.  So, for example, if you buy a bag of popcorn and the bag contains ten servings and you finish the bag, the calories, fat, cholesterol and other nutritional information must all be multiplied by ten to understand what you have just consumed.

2.) Ingredients are listed in order from the highest concentration to the lowest.  This means that if sugar or fat are listed within the first few ingredients, there’s a high concentration of sugar or fat on the item.  The reverse is also true.  If the healthy-sounding ingredients - the fruit, the whole grains - are at the end of the ingredient list, there is likely to be only a tiny bit of them in the product.

3.) Sugar is often disguised under different names.  High fructose corn syrup, any ingredient ending in “-ose”, honey, molasses, fruit juice concentrate, and brown sugar are all forms of sugar that act just like regular, white, refined sugar within your body.

4.) If the front label claims that the food is “healthy”, “low-fat”, “wholesome”, “made with whole grain”, “made with fruit”, check the back label to see what the real story is.  Food producers do not generally have your good health in mind when they put foods on the shelf.  They want the foods to sell, and they know that these kinds of claims catch the attention of people who are trying to eat healthier foods.  But the ingredients often tell a different story.  Foods may be low in sugar, but high in fat and artificial coloring.  They may contain a small amount of whole grain, along with a hefty dose of white flour and high fructose corn syrup.  Make sure you look at the whole label and don’t rely on the health claims to guide your choices.

5.) How many of the ingredients on the list look familiar?  How many can you pronounce?  How many would you feel comfortable including in something you were cooking or baking at home? When you were a child and your grandmother baked her delicious, mouth-watering apple pie, the only flavor enhancer she added was the love that went into baking it for you.  Although there are thousands of items available in the typical supermarket today, an alarming amount are pre-packaged, processed and provide little nutrient value.

When a food is processed, it is altered from its natural state.  Valuable nutrients, vitamins and minerals are taken out while chemicals and additives are injected back in.  Food dyes, flavor enhancers, stabilizers and preservatives may make food look more colorful or extend shelf life but think about it.  If a product can last indefinitely in a store or a vending machine, what happens to it when it’s in your body?

An easy rule to make healthy purchasing decisions would be this: if you can’t pronounce it, if you wouldn’t add it to anything you were cooking or baking at home, if you wouldn’t find the ingredient listed anywhere in your favorite cookbook, it’s probably best not to eat it.

So what are the healthiest choices to make when food shopping?

Most of the healthiest foods are located in the outermost aisles of the supermarket.  These include the fruit, vegetable, dairy and meat departments.

Let’s start in the produce department.  Here’s where you really want to fill up your cart.  Pile in beautiful, interesting and colorful fruits and vegetables.  Different colors of fruits and vegetables offer different nutrients, so just by making colorful selections, you’re automatically increasing your chances of getting a wide variety of healthy nutrients.  There are also many varieties of prewashed, precut lettuces and other vegetables available, making it easy to prepare interesting salads and side dishes.  Here’s where you splurge, because if a variety of pretty, precut vegetables are available at home, your may reconsider eating pre-packaged, processed junk food.

In the meat section opt for leaner cuts of beef, chicken and turkey.  Choose cuts with less visible fat to decrease your intake of saturated fat.  If you are buying ground meat, look closely at the percent of fat (most labels now show the fat content) and buy the leanest version.  With fish, choose both fatty (salmon and tuna) and lean varieties.  Fatty fish are great sources of omega 3’s and white colored varieties (flounder, sole, and halibut) are low in fat and calories.

In the dairy section look for words such as “low fat”, “non fat”, “fat free”, “1 percent”, “2 percent”, and “skim”. Consider switching to skim milk, or at least working your way down to 2%, then 1% and then skim.  Whole milk contains about 3.5% fat (and 150 calories in a serving), so 2% milk is still more than half of the fat (and 120 calories), while skim milk has only .4 grams of fat and 86 calories per serving.

Eggs, butter, margarine and soy products are often in these aisles so read labels and choose carefully.  Watch the fat in your dairy products and look out for added sugar in yogurts, creamers and soy milk.

You can still pick up healthy items in some of the center aisles if you choose carefully.  In the grain aisle, try to avoid refined carbohydrates and opt for whole grain and high fiber whenever possible.  Choose 100% whole-wheat or sprouted grain bread, high-fiber cereals, whole-grain pasta, and brown rice.  The closer the grain is to its natural source, the more fiber and nutrients it contains.  Beans can also be found in either the grain or canned food aisles.  Dry beans require soaking, which may not appeal to you.  Canned beans are just as nutritious, so if you’ll eat more beans this way, buy the canned version!  In the frozen foods section, you might want to grab a few bags of frozen vegetables or mixed blends (without the added sauces or butter flavoring).  Frozen vegetables retain the vitamins and nutrients while being convenient and easy to prepare.

When you work on becoming more supermarket savvy, you become more familiar with labels, packaging, and products available in your supermarket and you begin to realize that your shopping trips can either be the first step in preparing a healthy eating environment in your home, instead of a war zone where you battle with your best intentions, your cravings and your judgement.

Out of Sight, Out of Mind

One of the first recommendations that I always make for my clients who have difficulty controlling themselves around certain foods is to get some of those particular foods out of their house. If it’s not there, you can’t eat it!

But even with the best of intentions to keep only the healthy stuff around, special occasions come up, children want treats, you throw a party, or there are just some great leftovers that you can’t bear to part with. What is a mom searching for her mojo to do?

Do you notice how you tend to grab more food or snacks just because thet’re sitting out on the counter? How about when you wrap up delicious leftovers from a holiday or party and it’s just a little too easy to find them when the craving calls?

Here are some tips for making the food a little less accessible - and a little less likely to end up as extra padding on you!

1) Never leave food out on your counter, table or desk. It’s a open invitation to indulge whenever you glance at it or pass by.

2) Wrap foods in aluminum foil instead of saran wrap. You don’t see the tempting food and are less likely to be affected by it.

3) Put tempting food in a less convenient place. I put dangerous foods in the refrigerator in my garage. As I walk to the garage, it gives me an opportunity to think about how much I really want it. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve changed my mind on the way to find my hidden treat!

4) If you love to bake, make things that you don’t like so you won’t be tempted by them. Or at least make things you don’t love so you can enjoy a little and not feel like you have to have more and more!

5) Ask you partner or your kids to put the food away and not tell you where it is (my son loves to do this with anything BUT food by hiding my keys, wallets, cell phone, etc.)

6) Freeze it. If you put single-serving portions of your tempting foods in the freezer, you can defrost and enjoy a little bit at a time. And having to defrost it gives you that chance to reconsider!

7) Do not feel at all guilty about throwing tempting food AWAY! If you can’t stay away from it, and it isn’t good for you, there is nothing wrong with “storing” it in the trash! Here’s a mantra for you: “It looks better in the trash than on me!”

Try to commit to putting all food out of harms way. Nothing should be left on countertops, tables or within easy access. See how much easier it is and how much less you struggle when you are less tempted. When you reach for food it will be more intentional, you’ve planned and allowed for it.

You’ll also see that if you’re struggling to find and recover hidden food like a crazy person, something deeper might be going on!

Do you have any tips or tricks for saving yourself from the foods that can make you lose control?  Post a comment and share your ideas with the other moms out there!

Mojo 911!!

Have you ever wished that you could get private coaching from a Registered Dietitian with a Master’s Degree to create a healthy eating plan? Work one-on-one with a Personal Trainer to create a fitness routine that is just right for you? Meet with a Whole Health Coach who can show you how your current lifestyle is creating health/wellness or illness/disease?

But all of that individualized attention would cost thousands of dollars, right? Since I’m all three of those experts rolled into one (branded The Mojo Coach™ by my clients to sum it all up), I can tell you – yes, it would! And it would be worth every penny!

BUT, starting on Tuesday, July 7th at 2PM EST you can join me at www.MomTV.com for my new TV show – Mojo 911! – where I’m giving away all of this and much more… for FREE!!

I’ll be giving truckloads of information, ideas, strategies and inspiration within the six areas that as moms, we struggle with most: Nutrition/Weight Loss, Fitness, Stress Control, Emotional Health, Relationship Wellness, and Spirituality.

Each week I’ll be giving away a FREE gift: either one of my 2 CD’s, my book: The Lifestyle Fitness Program: A Six Part Plan So Every Mom Can Look, Feel and Live Her Best (recommended by Parenting Magazine), a mini coaching session, or who knows-if you live nearby I may just stop by and give you a kitchen cabinet makeover, take you on a food shopping tour or help you set up an effective home gym!

How can YOU win these FREE gifts? You’ll have to tune in each week to find out how to enter and winners will be announced each week!

If you are a mom who is ready to make lasting lifestyle changes, lose weight, become fit, healthy and happy from the inside, out…you’re going to want to tune in Tuesdays at 2PM EST at www.MomTV.com!

For nearly 20 years, I’ve inspired and empowered unfit, overweight and overwhelmed moms “get their mojo back” and now I’m eager to share everything that’s worked with moms who’ll be watching my show: Mojo 911! The program I created and teach (The Lifestyle Fitness Program) works because I know that you need a program that values your time, understands your specific needs and brings results. Also, being a mom of 4, I “get it” and know that our needs as moms are very different from the needs of others!

So please join me at 2PM EST on July 7th – and every Tuesday – on www.MomTV.com and let me help you get your mojo back!

Taking a Holiday from your Healthy Lifestyle?

Do you consider holiday time to be a holiday from healthy eating?

If you find special occasions, like holidays and vacations, give you a great excuse to indulge in foods that aren’t usually included in your diet, maybe your everyday eating style is too restrictive.  When you’re making lasting lifestyle changes to your diet, there is never a reason to be “on” or “off” because you’ve allowed for some flexibility and imperfection.  Eating dessert isn’t a tragedy, because you simply understand that you’ve allowed for it, or you’ll cut back during the next meal.  With healthy lifestyle changes, as opposed to dieting, you’ve also given yourself permission to indulge every so often, which often eliminates the urge to binge.

Weekend eating is often similar to eating on vacation because of the lack of structure a weekend often provides.  The same ideas apply here.  Allow for some imperfection to avoid the need to binge.

It’s also important to pre-plan for overeating whenever you can so you have a strategy when confronted with excess food.  For example, let’s say you enjoy drinking on Saturday nights and you usually drink more than you’d like.  Decide before you head out that you’ll have one glass of wine and alternate sips of wine with a glass of water.  Or choose a wine spritzer to cut the amount of wine instead.

If you are heading to a picnic or party to celebrate next weekend, make sure you don’t go with a roaring appetite.  It’s too easy to overindulge and by having a small snack before heading to the event, you’ll have a clearer perspective and make better choices.  Once you get to the party, here are some tips to help keep things under control.

1) Have a drink in one hand (you can have a club soda, which looks like a “real” drink, and no one will bother you about not drinking), and carry a clutch or purse in the other hand.  Now you have no free hands to overeat!

2) Carry your drink in one hand and a plate of fresh seasonal fruits and vegetables in the other hand.  Now you are eating with minimal damage.  Summer is the ideal time to fill up on these healthy treats!

3) Tell yourself that you can try three incredible looking appetizers or desserts.  Taste each one, savor the flavor and enjoy!  When it’s time to sit down for the meal, leave over what looks ordinary.  Use the opportunity to try unusual, interesting foods while avoiding excess calories from foods you could have any time.

4) At a holiday event, allow yourself to experience the foods that you associate most strongly with that holiday.  If the Fourth of July just isn’t the Fourth for you unless you eat a hot dog with everything on it, go ahead and have one!  But pass on the potato salad, chips and anything else that’s just there to fill your plate.  Be picky and indulge in only the foods that’ll make you feel like you’ve truly celebrated!

5) Find something else to do at the picnic or party other than eating and drinking.  Play badminton, talk to your friends and family, organize the sparkler display, play with the kids.  Anything that keeps you busy and away from the snacks will make the party more fun and keep you focused on the event rather than the food you aren’t eating.

So next time you are headed to an affair where the buffet tables are overflowing with delicious treats, try some of these strategies to keep yourself on track.  And if you do end up overindulging, be forgiving with yourself and just get back on track with your next meal!

It’s All How You Look At It

What’s the first thing you think when you hear the word “diet”?  Most of us think about deprivation. We think of all the foods, treats, desserts and snacks that we can’t have. We’ve been told, and so we believe, that the only way we can get the weight off is by staying away from these “forbidden” foods.  We think we’ll have to wait for the day when the “diet” is over and we can indulge again.

We place these foods on a pedestal because somehow they have a magical, mystical quality over us. We feel powerless when these foods are around us as if they are somehow forcing us to eat them. We may do this for a while, but eventually we give in to the powerful force of the food that’s calling us.

But consider this. What would happen if you looked at the whole diet approach much differently? If you want to lose weight your eating has to change, that’s a given. But while you’re making alterations to your diet, making healthier choices and changing your eating behaviors, instead of focusing on what you can’t have, how about turning your attention to the confidence, pride and improved self-esteem you’ll feel when you have formed new, healthier habits?

Instead of feeling angry that you can’t eat something, how about feeling proud that you’ve chosen to work toward the body you want?

Instead of struggling with the same foods that caused your weight issues for years, maybe decades, how about realizing that these particular foods simply don’t work for you and it’s your choice to exclude them from your healthy eating plan.  There’s no magic force surrounding those foods.  They’re not on the pedestal.  They just don’t work for you.

Nothing tastes as good as the feeling of being in control over our choices, our lives and ourselves. The real deprivation is not being able to live the life we want due to the pain our relationship with certain foods have caused.

Think about how your weight has held you back. If you don’t like how you feel and look because of excess weight, you’re not as likely to feel sexy and your relationships may suffer. When you feel out of shape and unhealthy, you may feel self conscious and not be as confident or outgoing as you’d like to be. Without healthy eating and exercise, you’re also more likely to be sluggish and fatigued; leaving you less willing and able to be active with your family.

Instead of choosing to feel deprived of the foods that you have decided to limit, choose to embrace the feeling of freedom. Freedom to live the life you want by ending the tug of war you feel with certain foods.  Not only will this free up mental space, but it will make you feel like you are the boss, not the chips, cookies, wine or Saturday night breadbasket.

Thanks For a Great Call!

Hi Everyone,

Thanks for a great call! There were so many great questions submitted. I wish I could have had another few hours with you to answer them all!

For those on the call: I know I gave you a ton of information in a short amount of time. Just keep reading over the notes you wrote from the study guide I gave and start moving towards your best self!

Hope you liked your free gift!

I’m planning on having more calls soon so keep checking the events/teleclass page so you can be a part of the next one!

Have a great day and speak to you soon!
Debi “The Mojo Coach”
www.TheMojoCoach.com

So You’ve Gained a Few Pounds, May as Well Gain More?

Hi Everyone,

How was your holiday? Hope it was filled with love, great times and special memories.

If you’re like most of us, while the holiday is filled with cheer, it’s also filled with food…a lot of it. Here’s where we often say “I’ll wait until the New Year to start eating better” or “I’ve blown it already, may as well just start fresh January 1st.” So, if I’m interpreting this correctly, it means that while you may have gained a pound or two, you may as well keep going and gain backall of the weight you’ve lost so you have a mountain, instead of a hill to climb once the New Year arrives. Does this make any sense?!

The reason I’m bringing it up now, and will be bringing it up again and again over the next few weeks is because it’s never to early or too late to get back on track. Healthy eating isn’t about “good or bad” “all or nothing” or being ”on or off” a diet at any given time. It’s about pulling in the reins when you feel you’ve been a little bit out of control, the pants are getting a little snug or you’re just starting to feel uncomfortable.

It’s perfectly ok to over indulge now and then. Food is meant to be savored and enjoyed, not something to fear or feel guilty about. The only difference between someone with a lot of weight to lose and someone who stays within their normal weight range is at what point they pull back, stop overdoing it and eat sensibly. 

If you’ve reached that point now, stop and reconsider the usual “I’ll wait until the New Year” approach. While the New Year is all about new starts and fresh beginnings, it’s about changing what doesn’t work for something that works better. Think how great you’ll feel if when the New Year arrives you can celebrate knowing you’ve already put a great plan of healthy eating/behaving into action! 

Enjoy and remember, the 2nd, 3rd and 10th bite/sip tastes the same as the 1st!

Debi “The Mojo Coach”
www.TheMojoCoach.com




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